There were no judgments to be made, yet out of necessity one had to select. Beyond good and evil was all right in theory, but to go on living one had to select: some were kinder than others, some were simply more interested in you, and sometimes the outwardly beautiful and inwardly cold were necessary. The kinder ones fucked better, really, and after you were around them a while they seemed beautiful because they were. Charles Bukowski
About This Quote

This quote represents the importance of judging others and oneself by the same standards. That means that we must know ourselves and be honest with ourselves. We also must look at how others act and make our own conclusions. If we judge everyone by the same standards, we will find that no one is perfect and we will not be able to appreciate anyone.

Source: Women

Some Similar Quotes
  1. No black woman writer in this culture can write "too much". Indeed, no woman writer can write "too much"... No woman has ever written enough. - Bell Hooks

  2. When you reduce a woman to writing, she makes you think of a thousand other women - Gustave Flaubert

  3. I would venture to guess that Anon, who wrote so many poems without signing them, was often a woman. - Virginia Woolf

  4. Being a woman is a terribly difficult trade since it consists principally of dealings with men. - Joseph Conrad

  5. There are no good girls gone wrong - just bad girls found out. - Mae West

More Quotes By Charles Bukowski
  1. My dear, Find what you love and let it kill you. Let it drain you of your all. Let it cling onto your back and weigh you down into eventual nothingness. Let it kill you and let it devour your remains. For all things will...

  2. Find what you love and let it kill you.

  3. I loved you like a man loves a woman he never touches, only writes to, keeps little photographs of.

  4. Love is a form of prejudice. You love what you need, you love what makes you feel good, you love what is convenient. How can you say you love one person when there are ten thousand people in the world that you would love more...

  5. Some moments are nice, some arenicer, some are even worthwritingabout.

Related Topics